Most people in the world spend time looking and preparing themselves to find the “right” person. You have many websites and apps on the cellphone that are aimed at helping people find love. Thousands of dollars are made by companies that promise to have the solution to find love. But in spite of all of these attempts, most people fail when it comes to love. And many end up depressed and alone.
The truth is, you don’t need to find the right person, you need to first be the right person. Of course you need to find the good match for you, but what about if you yourself aren’t the right person. People say that they want to marry someone because they want to be happy. But if you depend on marrying someone to be happy, it shows that you yourself are unhappy; And because you are unhappy you are going to make that person unhappy as well.
The Word of God says,
But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Matthew 6:33
That means, seek first for yourself. You have to be the right person. I have been married for 27 years. Before meeting my wife 28 years ago. I was already happy. I did not marry her to be happy. She did not come into my life to make me happy nor I into her life to make her happy. Because we both received the Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit is the Spirit of happiness. I didn’t look for someone to “complete my life” as they say. My life was already complete. If you marry someone to be happy they are going to make your life a living hell.
First of all you have to fix yourself. You have to receive the Holy Spirit and you will become happy, and when you meet somebody God will then bring happiness to the both of you.
May the God of the Bible Bless You
Bishop Bira Fonseca