Let me tell you something, that you may not want to hear.
It’s good for you to be alone. Yes, you read it correctly.
I said, it is good for you to be alone. I’m sure you are asking right now, “how is it good for me to be alone?” Let me clarify for you. It is good for you to be alone because when you are alone, you learn to depend on God and only God.
In this world, we are brought up to always be depending on someone. From birth you depend on your mother for milk, then as you get older you depend on the teachers in school to help you learn numbers and subjects, as you get older you depend on your boss at work, then it leads to depending on government, on your girlfriend or boyfriend, and it continues as a vicious cycle of dependency.
It is not wrong to ask for help when you need it, but when you start to depend on others, you will end up disappointed. No one will care about you as much as you, except for God. He is the only one that will love you more than you yourself. So then, He is the only one you can depend on. But the good news is that He is ENOUGH. And I mean that in the biggest way possible.
You don’t need a bunch of people in your corner to make it. All you need is to believe in yourself and believe in God. Then go after your dreams and make them come true.
The Word of God says:
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil;
For You are with me; Psalm 23:4
That’s why I say…
It’s good to be alone because then you depend on God alone.
May the God of the Bible bless You.
Bishop Bira Fonseca